1 Kings 2:23 (KJV) 23 Then king Solomon sware by the Lord, saying, God do so to me, and more also, if Adonijah have not spoken this word against his own life.
Adonijah didn’t request for anything evil or wrong. But he has just been granted mercy for a serious treacherous act. He could have been killed for it. He was pardoned instead. His offense, though forgiven, was still so fresh. Instead of being grateful and conducting himself with humility, he pushes it and requests for the king to grant him a certain woman to be his wife. This seemingly harmless request cost him his life.
Let’s be careful of the steps we take especially as recipients of many graces and tremendous amount of forgiveness. We may have wronged others so many times. We may have hurt them repeatedly. We may be disrespecting people continuously without any regard for the pain we’re inflicting on them. We think we’re good people because we’re nice to others we choose to be nice to, but we may have become callously heartless to those who have done us the most good. We’ve grown comfortable with it; we’ve become so familiar with being a recipient of certain people’s goodness and we have bred contempt.
It’s not wrong to ask for more. But it’s wrong to be insensitive. People may still be in the process of recovering from the last wounds we’ve caused, and here we are again, showing our thick faces, not attempting to show even a little act of gratefulness for the huge favor we’ve just received. Feeling entitled, we ask for another favor.
We have a heart; we have brains; let’s use it.
Dear God, we praise You for being a God of mercy, grace, and forgiveness. We praise You as well for being God of order. Please help us. We need to have reservations sometimes. We need to show discretion. We need to employ wisdom. We need to have the right timing. We need to think about those who we’ve hurt, who helped us, who forgave us, on how we can be a blessing to them as well. Order our steps please, – in Jesus’ Name, amen.